允許自己有情緒，才是真的成熟

日子難過的時候，很容易忽略身邊的小美好。也許是一杯恰到好處的綠茶，一次路邊的小微笑，又或是夜里的那陣清風。這些細碎的溫柔，才是生活真實的安慰。別讓瑣事掩蓋了生活的底色，有些煩惱，其實回頭看，都不是問題。它們終究會過去，只是現在暫時有些難熬。

你可以允許自己崩潰，可以流淚、想放棄，都沒關系。沒人能永遠活得瀟灑自在，甚至那些看上去很酷的人，也有他們不愿示人的時刻。關鍵是，別放大當下的痛苦，更不要否定自己走到現在的全部價值。生活再累，總有人會在乎你的感受，哪怕只是自己。

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http://m.91dageng.com.cn/mnews/992581.shtml所以，累了就真的可以歇一會兒，煩了就換個角度思考。先照顧好自己，比什么都重要。你沒有必要為別人的期待耗盡熱情，也無需時時刻刻成為那個讓所有人滿意的“大人”。你最該善待的，是那個拼盡全力也只是渴望溫暖的自己。

把這段話讀三遍。不是要你立刻振作，而是希望你明白：人生的低谷、疲憊、委屈和無數難題，并非你一個人在經歷，大家都需要休息。允許自己有情緒，允許自己沒那么堅不可摧，才是真的成熟。請一定要記住——你很好，已經很棒，很值得被溫柔對待。